I have this stirring inside of me.
I have this feeling that He wants more…
…of me as a wife and mother…
…from my talents…
…of me as an individual…
He’s wanting more of me. But what exactly? Or more importantly, how do I give Him what He wants of me?
Now, I’ve recently started reading Restless by Jennie Allen. Maybe that’s why I’ve got this stirring. The book asks: what’s my purpose? What’s God’s plan for me and how does that fit into His grand scheme?
Well, as a wife, He wants me to honor my husband. God wants me to submit to him and keep our household in order, running smoothly. What more can I do though? I know for me personally I lose my temper sometimes when I feel overwhelmed with housework. And you guessed it, poor Trevor bears the brunt of my bad mood. What I need to do is learn to take a moment, pray silently, and have the restraint to not take it out on my husband. He works hard at his job and also attends school to support our family. Sure, I can vent to him but I shouldn’t take it out on him. There’s the difference. He’s my husband–our marriage is a gift from God–and I should treat him as the special man that he is. God is showing me that I need to be a better wife to him, to care for him as he deserves and as the Bible has charged me to do. I need to be setting an example for my boys as to what to expect in their future spouse.
As a mother, I feel like I do my best to raise my three boys to love the Lord. We read the Bible and pray nightly. I fill their tiny ears and hearts with praise and worship music each time we are in the car, or while I’m cleaning the house. I try my hardest to show them how to live for God daily and not to be just a Sunday or Wednesday Christian. At times though, as I’m sure with every mom, my patience wears thin. Sometimes I get fed up with the bickering and messes. And other times Mommy just wants quiet. I raise my voice more than I probably should; there seems to just be those days. You know, those days. But God wants more of me as a mother. He wants me to discipline my children with a loving hand and not with my mouth spouting off words before I think. I need to rely on Him to give me direction in those moments. I need to listen and allow God to speak through me when I need to discipline them. I want my children to remember me as a loving mother and the godly woman I strive to be, not as a domineering, quick-tempered mother. I want them to have a lasting impression of what it’s like to be firm in one’s faith and follow that example as they (hopefully) grow into men of God.
As for my talents, I feel Him pushing me to do more. I really don’t have the confidence to do that though. Sure, I love music. I love playing my keyboard and singing, but how do I do more? And I’ve found other ministries to work at within the church. I just feel this tug. I don’t know what He wants but I know He is luring me to do something more. All I can do is seek Him and ask Him to reveal His plans for me. I need to see how my talents are going to be used to further God’s Kingdom in ways I can’t even begin to fathom.
Now, me. I really don’t know what to do. I feel so many tugs at my heart to do so many things. I feel God just calling me to be a better person in general. I feel Him pulling me to be more open with my faith. I feel like He has placed a sense of urgency in my soul to do more with my life, to allow Him to really move in and through me. There’s just more for me. I believe He has promises for me. I believe He has hopes and dreams for me so big that I can’t even begin to grasp them. I believe He has put me where I’m at for just a time like this.
I may not understand His ways, nor will I ever, but God has got my attention. He’s given me the life and story that I have for a purpose. All I have to do is follow Him, be obedient, and try to figure out what this “more” is He’s pushing me to be.
“So do not throw away this confident trust in the Lord. Remember the great reward it brings you! Patient endurance is what you need now, so that you will continue to do God’s will. Then you will receive all that he has promised.” Hebrews 10:35-36 (NLT)